Uncultured Hybrid

"You shouldn't be looking for love when you are single. Rather use the time to work on yourself and grow as an individual." For the past three years, I have heard this question so many times that I no longer have an answer to it. In the beginning, I would tell people that I had just gotten out of a serious long term relationship and I needed time to heal and recover (You can read about this on my blog Recovery). Once I had recovered I realised that I really just didn't want to be in a relationship but it just seemed like guys were not on the same page as me. It seemed like they were just flocking to "get me off the market". What many of these guys didn't know was that I was super insecure and felt that I did not deserve to be loved.  For those of you who have read some of my other blogs, you will know how I struggled with my self-esteem. I felt so worthless for so many years that I really believed that nobody will ever love/ like me. So when I eventually...

Heaven and earth will pass away, but My words shall not pass away. But of that day and hour no one knows, not even the angels of heaven, nor the Son, but the Father alone. Matthew 24:35-36 I know a lot of people look at the world around them and feel disheartened because there is so much chaos. There are people dying of the pandemic and other illnesses. There are war outbreaks between many nations.   People are hungry, living in poverty and afflicted with other calamities. We see natural disasters, global warming and mysterious things happening in our communities.   The love among people has gone cold. We see this because people do not wear masks to protect themselves and others from Covid-19. People destroy businesses and steal from each other. People kill and harm their neighbours for minor things. We see people taking temporary action that will have a long term effect on people’s jobs and the economy.   I understand when people who don’t know Christ panic and try to fi...