Uncultured Hybrid

"The famous saying that comes out of many people's mouths." I know many girls and women that have this as their anthem. Often when I hear that statement I wonder if women really believe it or if they are just so hurt at that moment that that is their way to get through it. I truly don't believe that men are trash and honestly I hate it when people say it. It is true that some men won't love, treat and respect you like you deserve it but that is still no reason to call men trash.  Remember that when you say 'men' it includes your father, your brother, your grandfather and all the other man that you hold dear to your heart. It is true that some men make us question their existence but to make such a general statement is a bit irrational. We don't like hearing general statements about women; in the same manner we shouldn't feel entitled to make general statements about anybody.  I certainly haven't experienced even a pinch of the pain, tra...

I know a girl She puts the color inside of my world But, she's just like a maze Where all of the walls all continually change And I've done all I can To stand on her steps with my heart in my hand Now I'm starting to see Maybe It's got nothing to do with me John Mayer - Daughters  This lyrics describes so many girls, ladies or women out there that have the potential to put color into someone's world but simply can't because she is too busy "cleaning up a mess" someone else made. Before I get right into it, I need to give credit to who credit is due. This blog was inspired by Manini Leputu. After watching her 'I hate my dad' video on her YouTube channel Kernel Conversations with Manini, I thought I can relate to a lot of the things she said. I mean I don't hate my dad (neither does Manini). I am grateful for everything he did for me and for the part he played in making sure that I am where I am today. You already know that my bio...

In life, we go through different situations that teach us different lessons. Sometimes when you are in the situation you don't understand the reason but once you have gone through it you realize that you learned something. In my own life, I have learned many lessons or it least I have acknowledged what lessons I was meant to learn from a certain situation. We don't just learn from our bad circumstances we also learn from the good ones. The past year and 7 months have been a whole life of lessons from different experiences. So I put together a list of lessons I have learned just in this past year, I have learned other lessons throughout my life and I may add to the list as I continue learning. 1. Be patient I have always been very impatient. I hate waiting for longer than I think I should, I dislike it when people waste my time by being late, I don't like when people make me late and the worst is waiting for my life plans to start working out. The thing abou...