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Perfect or Right

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"Mr. Perfect will strictly adhere to the logic offered by his mind but Mr. Right will strike a good balance between heart and mind." The other day I was having a conversation with one of my housemates. We were talking about relationships and singleness. She was the second person that day that asked me about my singleness.  The first person was a friend from work. She asked me and another friend of ours, "How can you guys be single?" Obviously, I didn't know how to answer because as far as I know there are no recipes to being single. Just as there are no recipes to being in a relationship. That question really got me thinking about my single state. Anyways later that day the housemate I mentioned above asked me, "Why are you single?" As I explained to her that I am single because I have not found someone that has the qualities I am looking for in a partner, she said to me "Sometimes you need to change the man to make him what you want....